Driven From Within

September 18, 2012

 What does it take to be driven from within? Why are some people determined to achieve their dreams and others willing to settle for far less?
To be driven from within requires a burning desire. The word desire is Latin for (to give birth to). So if you have a burning desire, the drive from within you, will express itself in the thoughts you think, your feelings and the actions you take.
You must want something so much that it consumes everything you do. To be driven from within is not a mere wish, it is a reality that has already taken place in your minds eye. You can see it, feel it, taste it, smell it and touch it. You know it must and will happen.
To be driven from within takes perseverance, planning, faith and a definite purpose as to what it is you want. So don’t settle for less, instead be your best

Don’t Shoot the Messenger

September 11, 2012

Don’t shoot the messenger, you might miss the message. Have you ever felt like other people make you mad, or sad, or even glad? Well the reality is no one can make you feel anything. They are just the messenger, and don’t shoot the messenger. Recently, I was dating a guy who I really really liked! I thought the feelings were mutual.  However the more I conveyed my feelings to him the more he pulled away. I felt terrible. I was so hurt and confused by this.  So many old feelings got stirred up inside of me, like, I’m not pretty enough, I’m not good enough, I’m not smart enough, I’m not, I’m not, I’m not. I had to stop torturing myself and realize that he was a messenger to heal some old wounds that I still held on to. That was the message! Eureka!!!
I am all that and more! I am beautiful, I am smart, I am good enough. I have worked through another layer of my deep seated insecurities to discover that I am perfect just who I am and I love myself unconditionally.
So don’t shoot your messenger if the person is bringing trouble, or sadness into your life, they are just the messenger, and you might just miss the message if you do.
No one can make you feel anything. The feelings are inside of us to feel and not shove down or tuck under a rug. Feel them and let them go. Ask yourself why this is coming up and find some healthy ways to release them.

So don’t shoot the messenger, they are delivering some very important news that will heal your heart.

You Get What You Give

September 4, 2012

Here we go with the great law of polarities again.  You get what you give. This is so true.  If you want more of anything you must give it first. The thing is you can’t give what you don’t have. If you don’t have money, how are you going to give it? It you are not happy, how are you going to spread happiness? So start where you are and start small. Give a little to yourself and then give a little away. The more you gain, the more you can begin to give.
If you want more business, help someone else’s business grow. Always think of how you can help someone else prosper first. When you make this shift, sooner or later your income, business, happiness or what ever it is you want will return.
You can call this karma, physics, (for ever action there is an equal or opposite reaction) the boomerang effect, or the law of attraction. How ever you label it, there are unseen forces at work here that can not be denied.
You only get what you give. The more you give with an open heart and no agenda behind it, the more shall return. The bible makes it very clear, you reap what you sow.  You must be patient the harvest will return in abundance, at the right time of maturity.
So begin at once planting the seeds, water, weed, cultivate, fertilize your mind with prosperous thoughts and watch and wait for the crops to grow.
Soon the season will be ripe for picking and the flood gates will pour open like you’ve never seen before.  So remember you only get what you give.