If we open a quarrel between past and present, we shall find that we have lost our future.
The one person that is standing in your way of living your best life is YOU!
I can remember my self-sabotaging behaviors when I was younger. Boy if I only knew then what I know now. I was getting in my own way of success but didn’t see it. It’s not easy to see your blind spots. Until I started working with a coach I was continually shooting myself in the foot and blaming someone or something else for my setbacks.
Taking responsibility for my thoughts, feelings and actions requires disciple. To take an honest look at what I’ve been doing or not doing also takes courage.
What I’ve learned was to stop over analyzing. I must get in the zone and just be and do. I had to visualize myself as the person I wanted to be and then act the part. The minute the monkey mind started coming in my head, I was cooked.
The results are sneaky but can start to show up causing dis-ease, bad relationships, lack of money, loss of a job or any other place.
It takes continued focus and practice to learn how to stop the monkey mind from taking over. That is why a coach is essential in helping you.
So, if you’re having a quarrel between your past and present, you too have lost your future. And without a future you’re not going anywhere.