Pay Now, Play Later

May 11, 2017

“I’ve never known a man worth his salt who in the long run, deep down in his heart, didn’t appreciate the grind and the discipline. I firmly believe that any man’s finest hour-this greatest fulfillment to all he holds dear-is the moment when he has worked his heart out in a good cause and lies exhausted on the field of battle-victorious.”  Vince Lombardi

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You can either play now and pay later or pay now and get to play later. In other words, if you put in the work required to achieve a desired result now, the rewards are that you can relax after the work is done.

If you choose to play now, well your going to have to pay twice as hard and maybe never stop paying for the consequences.

This is a valuable lesson to learn. Which do you choose? Sacrificing something of a lower nature for something of a higher one takes disciple, commitment and perseverance.

If your looking for techniques, strategies or tools to get  your mojo into action, lets talk. 516-297-0672

 

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Investing Vs. Spending

May 4, 2017

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INVESTING IN YOURSELF IS THE BEST INVESTMENT YOU WILL EVER MAKE. IT WILL IMPROVE THE LIVES OF ALL THOSE AROUND YOU!               Robin Sharma

I have  spent  over a million dollars in my 60 plus years of living on this earth on stuff! Houses, cars,  vacations, gifts, clothes and other things. Some of them were investing in my welfare and some things were not. I consider homes and investment. Cars, not, because they depreciate the minute you leave the show room. I also have invested about a half a million dollars on my education. This to me was worth more than all the tangible stuff I own.

Why? Because it is now a part of who I am. Even though you can not see it, feel, it, touch it, smell it or taste it, I am so much richer because of the knowledge and wisdom that is inside of me.  It can never depreciate. Learning is the best investment, because you continue to become aware of the amazing abilities you already posses and you grow in value with your knowledge.

The nice cars, clothes, and other stuff are all wonderful, and fun to have, however ask yourself when  your out shopping and ready to buy something,  if this is fulfilling a void or do your really need it? Is this an investment or am I just spending my money on stuff I don’t really need.

Instead invest in your education, in your mind and in your skills.

I would love to help you learn how to invest in the most important person in your life, YOU! Let’s talk, call me at 516-297-0672


Same Sh*t Different Day?

February 9, 2017

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” Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.” Theodore Roosevelt

Creativity is a powerful way to celebrate who we are. It is a spiritual energy that nourishes our vitality. It replaces negative thinking with positive action.

How often do you put your creativity on hold? Between work, family and other obligations your creativity gets put on the back burner. We get stuck in the grind of just living rather that creating a life. Years ago when I was under stress or had too many things on my to do list, I would forget to add joy and fun into my activities. Now I know that what ever I am doing, where ever I am or have, I can add the element of creativity to it.

I spice things up. Even if I’m washing the dishes, I find a way to make it more enjoyable. I will get in a rhythm or if I’m cleaning I will dance. If I’m stuck in traffic, I listen to an audible book. If i’m working on my business, I try to take on a new approach.

Everything we do, can be a spark for creative energy to emerge. Our commitment to life is to tap into the creative energy that is inside us and all around us.

Need help to spark your creative juices? Call Monica today! 516-297-0672 or email me at positivemonica@yahoo.com

 

 

 


You Are the One That’s Stopping You!

January 19, 2017

 

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What is holding you back from living your dreams and going out to create a magnificent life? What is stopping you from being fully engaged and moving forward?

I used to make excuses for why I wasn’t having the success that I knew I could have. I would blame others, thinking that it was someone or something outside of myself for causing my misfortunes. However in reality it was only myself that was preventing me having everything I truly wanted. I was the block! Until I understood this and was brutally honest with myself  nothing would have changed. I had to Stop It!

It is so easy to make excuses for not being, doing or having what we desire.  We get stuck in our own heads and all those limiting beliefs about what is preventing us from living a magnificent life. So just Stop it, and step out and live!!!

Need some help to stop your limiting beliefs from rearing their ugly head? Call Monica for a free clarity session and start now to live a magnificent life.

Here is a funny video that will tickle your funny bone.

 


Are You Living Your Fears or Dreams?

January 12, 2017

To Many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears!

Les Brown

What stops us from living full out and taking the plunge into a joy filled life? Why do so many people get stuck in the muck of the ordinary? I know it is fear! I know how fear can hold us back from living our dreams. Little by little fear can creep in through a thought, through someones criticism, through a disappointment,  through a seeming crisis or any other devious way fear knocks on our door. If we let it in, it will reek havoc and quickly destroy all the good that is there waiting to be released. I have had many such experiences, which started very early in my life. Both my parents had many fears that got downloaded into my mind-body. As an adult I realized how these fears were preventing me from living my dreams. So I took  an inventory of what I thought was keeping me from a joy filled life. I decided to acknowledge the fear, thanked it for showing up to try and keep me safe, and started to live my dreams.

Does fear still try to knock down the door, you bet! Every time it does, my faith gets stronger and I do something that scares me. It’s time you start living your dreams instead of living your fears.

Do 1 thing every day that challenges you. Every time you do, you will get more confident and the next time when fear knocks on your door and faith answers, no one will be there.

Need help in conquering your fears, call Monica today.

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Here’s How to Make This Year Your Best!

December 21, 2016

believe-in-yourselfTake a leap of faith and begin this wondrous new year by believing. Believe in yourself. And believe that there is a loving Source – a Sower of Dreams – just waiting to be asked to help you make your dreams come true.

Sarah Ban Breathnach

Wow, what a marvelous year it has been for me! I hope everyone was able to capture the moments of your life with joy and celebration. I have been blessed to have shared the stage with some of the best speakers in the world. Bob Proctor, Les Brown, Michael Beckwith, Jack Canfield, Mary Morrissey, just to name a few. I traveled abroad and I just returned from a trip to Alaska, yes, you heard me correct, Alaska. So many people asked me why I was heading to Alaska in the winter and my reply was why not? It was such a magical trip. Life should be a glorious adventure. If you have an opportunity to go somewhere, and do something, take it! Experience all life has to offer. Don’t get me wrong, I had some major challenges as well. I shared some trying times with friends and family members who are going through some life threatening illness and other changes that have tested their faith. I don’t think there is anyone who is not going through some sort of life change. The key is having the support and resources to navigate through them.

What is it that you want for your life for 2017? Do you want to travel to exotic lands, or perhaps you want to give your time to a charitable cause? Maybe you dream of starting your own business. Do you have health goals? Maybe this is the year you want to meet that special someone. Why not invest New Years day on thinking of the person you want to become. Write down everything you would like to manifest and see it all coming to fruition. Don’t waste another year just dreaming about it, take some action to create it!

Les Brown said, most people die at age 25 and don’t get buried until they are 65.

If you want to begin your New Year with a BIG impact, join me in an eight week Master Mind class based on the book Think and Grow Rich, by Napoleon Hill starting January 3rd, in the comfort of your own home.

Sign-up NOW!

Wishing you and your family a glorious Holiday and  the very best for the New Year,

Monica

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You Are What you Believe

November 29, 2016

believeYou’re not just what you eat, or do, or think. You are what you believe! A belief is only a thought that you have repeatedly been thinking for a long time. Belief is in your subconscious mind. If you repeatedly tell yourself something or if you repeatedly been told something you begin to take it on as a fact. However, a belief is not the truth. Beliefs can change. If you believe that you can heal from an illness, you will. The power of faith and belief is vital to understanding what you are capable of and what is causing the limitations in your life. Actually the placebo and nocebo effect is all based on belief.  The mind is able to regulate hormones and neurotransmitters to regulate your body and how it transmits signals from outside stimulus. You must change your belief about something in order for it to materialize into its physical equivalent. It has to be totally absorbed into your subconscious mind for you to experience. You have to viscerally feel it in your body. It must become you.

If you want to learn how to create mind over matter, call me to train your brain.

What the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve!

 


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