September 6, 2018
I’ve come to realize that my attitude will dictate every result I get in my life. I’m sure you heard this message too growing up. Things like; if you had better attitude, you could get better grades in school, or, with an attitude like that you can go to your room, right? The only thing is no one ever told us how to get a better attitude. What is attitude anyway? Well the dictionary describes it as;
1-A position of the body or manner of carrying oneself, indicative of mood or condition.
2-A state of mind or feeling about some matter.
3-A way of behaving; disposition.
In other words, my thoughts, feelings, and actions must all be aligned in a positive way, for me to be perceived and received as authentic. When this happens, I will radiate with confidence.
To do this, I have to be willing and able to honestly look at the results I am presently getting in my life. I know that at the center of my being is love, truth and a life that is connected to a higher intelligence. I also know I have gotten mixed messages about myself and the world as I was growing up. These negative messages have formed my behaviors and beliefs. Even though they didn’t feel good, I grew up not realizing how these limiting beliefs affected my attitude and everything in my life.
Now I know that I can change my perception about those beliefs. I choose to align with my higher self and develop an attitude of gratitude. Once I begin to make that shift, my whole world will reflect these results back to me, as a mirror reflects an image. Choosing to take responsibility for your attitude will improve the quality of your relationships which will bring unimaginable abundance into your life. Learn how you can tap into your truth and form a positive attitude.
September 14, 2017
We all know the story of the Empires new clothes, right? Were he paraded down his village with no clothes on and no one wanted to confront him and tell him that he was stark naked. It took the innocence of a young boy to yell this out, that broke the trance. How do you handle confrontation? For most people this can be very difficult. If there is a problem that needs to be addressed, avoiding it will only make the matter worse. So what is the best way to handle it? Having a clear sense of how to do this will create a win-win situation or a win-loss outcome. Confrontation is not about I’m right and you’re wrong. It is about being direct, clear, honest and sincere. When you align your tone of voice, words and intention to communication what you feel in a healthy way, the message gets received in a non-aggressive manner.
It is important to confront the behavior or an action that is unfavorable. If not, nothing changes and it will get worse. Healthy confrontation takes emotional stability and responsibility. In order for our world to change in a positive direction we need people to speak up and confront the issues that are allowing so much destructive behavior to go on.
So the next time you want to lash out or ignore the situation, find the courage within yourself to be the one who confronts the problem in a healthy way so it can get resolved.
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June 28, 2016
Inductive reasoning is a logical process in which multiple premises, all believed true or found true most of the time, are combined to obtain a specific conclusion.Inductive reasoning is often used in applications that involve prediction, forecasting, or behavior.
Reasoning is your critical mind questioning every thought or impression entering your conscious mind to decide whether something is good or bad for you. People can try to induce you to their way of thinking if we are not careful and use our own reasoning skills.
Reason, gives us the ability to think for ourselves. You get to decide what you will allow to enter your subconscious mind through your inductive reasoning. Without our reasoning faculty we are subject to believing anything that comes along. Thinking is the highest function we are capable of as human beings. We can either accept or reject concepts and ideas that are presented to us and through our reasoning process determine whether or not we want to believe them or not.
Reasoning is a skill that can be fine tuned when practiced and utilized. It is important to communicate with other high functioning and skilled people to come to conclusions that are best suited for your individual needs. It can be challenging to reason things out on your own without understanding the formula of proper reasoning.
You should carefully study the Art of Reasoning, as it is what most people are very deficient in, and I know few things more disagreeable than to argue, or even converse with a man who has no idea of inductive and deductive philosophy.
William John Wills
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