July 20, 2017
How many times have you been a conversation were someone was insisting on being right? It seemed like they weren’t even listening to what you had to say. They were just addicted to wanting to be RIGHT! They just wanted to prove their point, position or claim. Every time that we get in this mind-set we actually release dopamine into our body and get a good high from it. We want to prove a point, get the right answers and look smart.
Now being smart is great, however if there is no emotional intelligence behind the smarts we are really not growing, learning and communicating well. We actually remain stuck, and actually are damaging our relationships in business and in our personal life. If you are a boss or in a leadership position, this is vital for the health of your company.
It is wanting to be in a position of power and control rather than cooperation. When we learn how to listen and just be open to another point of view, it will allow so much trust and open dialog. We shift to create the freedom to explore possibilities and look for solutions to problems rather than slam the door shut on any other view point.
So the next time you feel the urge to be RIGHT, rather than react, take a moment to respond in a different way.
Here are three suggestions to keep an open mind and respond rather than that knee jerk reaction:
1-Ask- How do you feel?
2- Ask- What do you think?
3-Ask-How can we work together to find an answer?
Would your rather be RIGHT or do the RIGHT thing?
Here is a short video explaining how our ego gets in the way of our success.
If you would like to find a healthier way to communicate let’s talk! Call me.
July 5, 2016
“Programming creates belief, beliefs create attitudes; attitudes create feelings; feelings determine actions; actions create results.” Erasing and rewriting your own program with specific commands is thus the most permanent, logical, and precise way to change your life. I know there are many modalities that can change the programming that we have been downloaded with through our childhood, however I have found the most effective and lasting is self talk. This is more than just positive affirmations. Self talk is a technique that will literally reprogram your mind, Hearing yourself talk out loud, internally or play back from a recording you make with your own voice is a simple yet powerful method that will increase your self-esteem to new heights!
The answers we seek are all inside of ourselves and when we tap into the conversations we are having with ourselves we begin to open the door way to understand the dialog that is going on between our ears. We all talk to ourselves whether we think we do or don’t. The difference is, if you are communicating in the language that is most effective for your subconscious mind to understand.
Isn’t it time to for You to cancel and clear the old programs with New empowering ones? I have a tried and true system that shows you how!
Call me today and find out how you can achieve goal after goal!
May 24, 2016
I am in complete awe when I observe pictures from the Hubble telescope. The images are so fantastic that I can’t help wonder about the energy that it took to create such magnificence.This substance is alive and conscious. This is the same substance that creates the things in our personal lives as well. We live in a cosmic matrix were we can manifest anything. When we begin to tap into the mind of this energy we become in harmony with the quantum realm of creation to become the alchemists in our lives. We do this by thinking according to the principles of divine intelligence. It is practice and focus to keep your mind on the things that you desire in spite of what the appearance may look like on the outside. If you want to understand how to communicate with this infinite intelligence you must learn to speak the same language as this source energy. We do this through our thoughts. When you align your thoughts with the great and powerful God, you will be able to dwell into the Master Mind. Form images in your mind of what you desire and hold those thoughts with belief, conviction, and passion. Then, listen to your intuition and follow the course of action that directs you to your creation. God is working to and through you. Never forget this truth!
Do you desire to tap into the creative process and form beautiful images in your mind?
Call Monica today! Don’t wait, create!!