April 9, 2020
We are all connected, to each other, biologically. To the earth, chemically. To the rest of the universe anatomically… Not only are we in the universe, the universe is in us.
This realization is becoming more evident then ever before. Every day I wake up asking for guidance. I ask how may I be of service to humanity? The more time I have to reflect on this understanding the more liberated I feel. We are social, emotional, energetic and spiritual beings. Knowing that we are connected is the most reassuring part of being human. We all want to be loved….
The more you know yourself the more you will know others. The more you know others the more compassion you will have. During these times of uncertainty ask yourself, what am I afraid of? What are the thoughts and feelings that are coming up for me at this time? I know a few friends who within the last week have transcended. There is sadness and empathy that I am experiencing. It’s a difficult time for so many.
How do we rise above and seek comfort during these times? By realizing that we are all connected. That there is a cosmic web that binds everything and everyone together. There is no separation. Every thought we think, to every act we take, is all affecting the whole. The more you can lift your vibration, the higher the frequency you will project The higher the frequency you project the more connected you will feel.
The more connected you feel, the more love will radiate to and through you. The more love you exude, the more light will prevail. The more light that is emanating on the earth, the less darkness and fear can effect you.
Breath this in! We are all in this together.
Blessings & love,
July 3, 2019
Let’s face it, life can be darn hard at times. It can knock you down, turn you inside out and twist you around. I don’t know anyone who hasn’t achieved greatness without going through some sort of adversity.
The difference between those that succeeded and those that didn’t is the faith and courage to get back up and go at it again. Also, having someone in your corner. someone who sees your goodness and sees something that you can’t or don’t believe in yet. There were times that I wanted to give up on myself but something inside me kept me going. You can call it source energy, God, spirit, consciousness or infinite intelligence, but it’s real and it always available to tap into.
If you’re going through some tough times, you can grow through it. To reach mastery in anything, or to overcome anything ask your heart for guidance and then give it your all. Grow through it! Nothing happens by accident. Learn from adversity and grow. You’ll amaze yourself who you can become!
June 12, 2019
A good seaman weathers the storms he can not avoid, and avoids the storms he can not weather. Perhaps the key is to identify the difference.
I recently attended a funeral of a man who literally drank himself to death. He was an alcoholic in the depths of his addiction. It truly is a disease. It was a man I did not know well, but was there to support a friend who was involved with him. Some of his siblings spoke about him which revealed a man in his younger years was an extremely gifted and talented sailor, surfer, athlete and dancer. He went to Julliard for ballet! So what happened? When does a life start to take a turn and head into stormy waters? How can you navigate out of it? Why didn’t he get help? What was it that he was avoiding? So many questions, but no answers.
It was as if his life was battling a constant storm that he couldn’t get out of.
You might be going through some storms of your own or have gone through some turbulent times. We all go through tough times in life. With support and guidance you can get through them and even avoid some of them. You always need a good skipper on hand to help you see things you can’t as you are steering your way through life! So, if your going through a storm in your life, ask for help, pray, meditate on it and know anything is possible to get through with faith and courage.
April 26, 2018
We must be willing to get rid of the life we’ve planned, so as to have the life that is waiting. Joseph Campbell
When a crisis hits you like loss of some kind, an accident or illness, you can either rise above or sink into the abyss. The choice is yours. There have been a few times in my life where I was at the edge of despair. We all go through times that can rattle us to the core of our being. We plan our life, set goals and work hard to accomplish them and boom, something happens that takes you in a completely different direction.
For awhile we feel sorry for ourselves and wonder why this is happening. However if you have a strong inner drive with purpose and passion, you will soon see the silver lining in that seemingly misfortune. ” Every adversity, every failure, every heartbreak, carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit.” Napoleon Hill
With guidance, perseverance, and faith you will rise above. Stay true to being YOU!
You must jump into the unknown, for it is there that the answers to your search will reveal themselves.
To find out how you can discover your best life, call for a free consultation and begin living with passion and purpose!
Watch this powerful video and see how this young lady did just that!!!
March 29, 2018
It’s all in the timing. Iv’e heard this over and over during my life, however most of us are pressured to follow a linear path in life, doing things in a certain order. That’s how I grew up believing. You go to school, graduate, get a good job, buy a house, start a family and on to retirement and repeat with grand kids. When things do not follow this pattern we can get depressed because we are not following this herd mentality. We might feel like there is something wrong with us if the timing doesn’t work out according to “plan”.
My life certainly does not follow this pattern and many people who go on to accomplish great things didn’t either. You can not rush, push, force or coerce your time. If you try, you will probably end of feeling like a failure in life and that is so far from the truth.
Your internal clock is different than anyone else’s. Your time will come when you are doing what you love, being who you authentically are, and listening to your heart. Everyone has their own inner clock and it is ticking and keeping time in precise order. Just remember to watch your own watch and not keep time on someone else’s. It’s always your time…….
If you need guidance to get into your own rhythm of life lets talk. Get in touch, it will be one of your greatest gifts you give yourself.
February 15, 2018
I am taking a course right now on Emotional Intelligence. I have taken this course before however I want to see how I can improve in the areas that still trigger my emotions. I still have plenty of room to grow! My emotional triggers are usually small things like my cell phone not working properly or my computer acting up. Then again I have some family members that can press certain buttons that try to stir things up.
What I find is missing when I work only with my EQ is my SQ or my spiritual intelligence. Without considering how this effects my EQ is leaving out a huge part of the equation. We are body, mind and soul. Therefore IQ (intelligence) EQ (emotional) and SQ (spiritual). When I coach people, I have discovered that most of their struggles are between the emotional and spiritual realms.
When I help people become aware of this missing link we open up the possibilities for healing their emotions, as well as tapping into intelligence’s that they never even were conscious of before. They increase their energy levels, productivity, health and happiness.
Here are 3 easy things to do to become aware and integrate your EQ and SQ.
1- When you are noticing your feelings, ask for guidance. Just see if you can quite your mind and listen.
2- Get comfortable in silence. Allow yourself the pleasure of just being. Feel the energy of the life force course through your body and mind without any judgement.
3- When something or someone presses your buttons, before you react, put your hand over your heart and breath.
These practices and more take time. Need some guidance? Let’s have a conversation. Call me for a FREE consultation.
February 8, 2018
Faith is to believe what you do not see; the reward of this faith is to see what you believe! Faith is also (finding answers in the heart). Are there problems in your life that appear to be insurmountable? If this is so let go and let God!
There is a power that permeates, penetrates and fills the interspaces of the cosmos, and everything you see around you is an expression of that power. The power operates in a very precise manner, which is generally called law. In other words, everything comes from source, and that source power always flows and works to and through you. Through faith and law, everything you can imagine will manifest into the physical realm.
We live in a metaphysical world. Everything is created twice, once in the mental or thought realm, and then in the physical. What picture are you forming in your mind? Is it doom and gloom, or health and wealth? You see, what ever picture you are holding, by law, has to manifest.
James Allen the literary mystic of the early 20th century said, “Mind is the master power that molds and makes, and man is mind, and the more he shapes the tool of thought, will bring forth a thousand joys or a thousand ills. He thinks in secret and it comes to pass, environment is but his looking glass.”
Hold your image high and allow spirit to fill your being. Whatever you accomplish in your lifetime, will be in direct proportion to your passion and persistence of your faith. Expect abundance in all areas of your life, and allow passion and faith to guide you.
Need some guidance to get your faith started? Let’s have a conversation.
September 20, 2017
We are spiritual beings having a human experience. We came from some place and are going to return somewhere. Amazingly, our DNA is a shaped like a spiral stairway reaching for the heavens. The more we can stay connected to that spiritual part of ourselves the more understanding, awareness, and consciousness will flow to and through us guiding our lives. One of the ways to keep the channel open is through the intellectual faculty of intuition. I’ve heard it said that if prayer is when we talk to God, intuition is when God talks to us. It’s that quiet whisper echoing in the core of our soul, always letting us know what is best for our well being.
Most people have either not been taught how to properly use this facility or have ignored their feelings when intuition has been trying to speak to us. It has therefore been laying dormant, just waiting to be turned on, when ever we are ready and willing to listen. The doorway to begin to open up your intuitive abilities, is through imagination. Ask for guidance and envision a soul image, like an angel, or a fairy, even an owl, or (what ever feels good), to assist you.
Then sit in silence and relax the mind. Our mental chatter often gets in the way of a clear connection, just like static on a radio channel. Once the flow of energy is calm and focused, the signal will be clear to receive the guidance from your soul. Begin to pay attention to your feelings; they are your compass, directing you along your journey to a more fulfilling life. Always remember, you are a spiritual being, and that to reclaim your connection, if it has been severed, takes practice, just like a muscle that has not been used becomes atrophied. Soon you will begin to awaken to your true self.
If you need help getting in touch with your intuition, let’s talk!
September 14, 2016
“Feeling tension does not mean something is wrong. It means something is working.” Graham Cooke
The energy that you may be feeling can be used for fuel for tension or your intention!
How many times a day are you being pulled in so many directions? I know I have many things on my schedule every day! Between appointments, and emails, calls, and juggling my business and personal life can get quite hectic. I can feel the tension build if I am not aware of using that feeling for constructive purposes. The feeling of that pressure is just energy. Once we label that energy as tension or something negative we are already moving away from being productive to destructive.
So the next time you are feeling tension, remember that something is working and something is building. Fuel it with your intention to create something positive. Become aware of your thoughts, your feeling and actions to propel you forward with passion to fuel your purpose!
Need more guidance as to how to transform your tension into intention, reach out and call me for more tips and tools!!
Have an empowered day!!!
August 17, 2016
The junk does not start in your trunk, it’s starts in your head! The junk will cause a funk. I know Iv’e been there!!! There have been times in my life where there was so much going on that I felt completely overwhelmed. That junk keeps piling up and like weeds in the garden will continue to grow and over take your peace of mind. Bad habits begin to take over like eating to much unhealthy food, not having the energy to exercise and getting depressed. It feels like you just don’t know where to begin to clear out that junk. Well debunk that funk, that stinks like a skunk!
I know that the first thing I do to stop the thoughts that are creating a threat to my sanity is to get help. You must stop and realize that there is a power greater than ourselves. We have to ask for guidance from this universal source of love and surrender to this power. Next I being to gather my resources and focus on what I can do to get rid of the unwanted junk that’s causing the funk. I find things that I am grateful for and devise a plan that I can implement.
So if your feeling that your in a funk, ask for guidance.
Need help? Call Dr. Monica to get you out of the funk! Your life is waiting!