Another Fine Mess

March 6, 2019

Don’t be ashamed of your story it will inspire others.

I can’t even count how many messes I got myself into through the course of my life. Actually I wrote a book about them all. How May I Serve. I have a pen name Karen Mathews. You can go to http://www.howmayiserve.net or http://www.monicabennett.net to find out about all the messy details. And girl is it juicy!!!!

Boy, I was a hot mess. But you know what I did? I turned my mess into a message! That’s rights, I turned it around, upside down, inside out, side ways and twisted it so much, that’s you won’t recognize me from who I am now. How about you? Are their some messes you want to clean up? Before you do, be honest with yourself, become aware of them and forgive yourself. Then find the support you need to turn your mess into a message. You just might inspire someone else to find the strength and confidence to know their not a f*ck up. When you know better you do better. At the time I knew nothing!!! I knew jack sh*t!  I was an insecure, lost, frightened young girl. But I needed to smell the coffee or (I like to smell roses more) really quickly because I was cruising for a bruising.

So if you’re reading this and you’ve gotten yourself in some messes, this might be the sign you were looking for to get out of shame, blame and all those emotions that keep you in the dark. It’s okay. The more you bring light to your wounds the more you can heal.

Ask for help! Reach out! You’re not alone.

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New Year, New You

December 30, 2014

new year new youAny time, is a great time to set goals for yourself and become more of who you are. Most people begin the New Year by setting goals to loss weight, or exercise more, start a new project, take a class to get a promotion at work, work on a relationship issue, or earn more money. What ever you desire, you must begin by setting the goal and writing it down. Look it those goals often through out the day and see yourself already having them accomplished. You must become emotionally charged with your goals. Begin where you are, hire a life coach to set yourself accountable and take the necessary steps to achieving your goals. 2015 is a New beginning. Now is the only time you have. Goethe said, “Whatever you can do or dream you can do, begin it! Boldness has genius power, and magic in it. Begin it now!”

The universe loves action! There is no attraction without the action.

So set your sail, and start your New Year with a New You!

Happy, Healthy and Blessed, New Year to all!


Your Blueprint

February 25, 2014

blueprint

We have all been downloaded with a blueprint of who we are. The question is, is this blueprint who you really want to be? You are the architect of your life and if you are not thrilled with how the design of your life is shaping out to be, you can change it. The good news is you can alter the blueprint and create a whole new you. First, you must have an idea of who you want to be. Find some role models that will inspire you. Read autobiographies of people who have changed their blueprint, study, work with a life coach and set goals. Before you know it, you will have changed your blueprint and life gets so much better. Blueprints can be altered. Just make a new plan Stan.


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