It’s My Way Or The High Way

September 14, 2017

We all know the story of the Empires new clothes, right? Were he paraded down his village with no clothes on and no one wanted to confront him and tell him that he was stark naked. It took the innocence of a young boy to yell this out, that broke the trance. How do you handle confrontation? For most people this can be very difficult. If there is a problem that needs to be addressed, avoiding it will only make the matter worse. So what is the best way to handle it? Having a clear sense of how to do this will create a win-win situation or a win-loss outcome. Confrontation is not about I’m right and you’re wrong. It is about being direct, clear, honest and sincere. When you align your tone of voice, words and intention to communication what you feel in a healthy way, the message gets received in a non-aggressive manner.

 


It is important to confront the behavior or an action that is unfavorable. If not, nothing changes and it will get worse. Healthy confrontation takes emotional stability and responsibility. In order for our world to change in a positive direction we need people to speak up and confront the issues that are allowing so much destructive behavior to go on.

So the next time you want to lash out or ignore the situation, find the courage within yourself to be the one who confronts the problem in a healthy way so it can get resolved.

Need help in learning a healthy dialog to communicate, let’s talk!

Here are 10 Guidelines for Positive Confrontation!

 

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Don’t Sink Under the Pressure

June 21, 2016

pressureYou can measure a man’s character by the choices he makes under pressure.  Winston Churchill

When everything is going smoothly in my life it is beautiful thing! I love when my day feels like a warm soft breeze on a summer day. However when the weather changes, some days can feel like a hurricane with 90 miles per hour winds. It can seem like I have a million important things to do in one day. The pressure can feel overbearing!! When I am able to stay calm under pressure, I know I have really  become the captain of my ship. But I still have moments when the seas get really rough that I forget how to navigate back to my serenity. However the time lapse is less and less. How about you? How do you react under pressure? Your true character is revealed under pressure. It can either make you or break you! Through experience, tools and techniques,  I now know how to take responsibility for my actions rather than  react hastily under turbulence conditions. So, although the conditions  might change my temperament will remain the same.

It is time to take back your Power and become the master of your life!

Do you want to know how? Call me today and learn how to navigate your life through the storms!!!


The Difference Between the Haves and Have Nots!

June 7, 2016

 

accountability

What is the difference between highly successful people who really accomplish so much in life and others that don’t? It is accountability! People who take action on the things they desire take daily, progressive action. I know in my own life that there are times when I just don’t feel like doing something however when I am accountable and know that that action will result in positive results, it is much more likely to get done. Accountability is the missing link between desire and mastery. It takes discipline to commit to something you say you are going.
accountiblity2If you have a coach to inspire and motivate you to take that action, you will accomplish your goals. It is that simple! The difference between a successful day and a day of failure is accountability. You must take responsibility and be persistent on doing the things you say you want to have, be or do.

So, start today, don’t delay!

Call Monica, to find out how!


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