Don’t Leave Me Out!

May 22, 2019

 

Are your thoughts and words supporting you and creating a beautiful vision for your future or sabotaging you and keeping you a victim of your past? Words change worlds and make the invisible, visible.

As humans, our need to connect and feel like we belong is more important than anything else. When we don’t feel like we belong, we don’t feel safe, when we don’t feel safe, there is no trust, and when there is no trust, we protect ourselves and shut down.

When we shut down, there is no room for growth, the ability to learn or create. It feels like a pit in your stomach, like an unspoken entity that wants to be heard but you’re too afraid or don’t know how to talk about it.  Our emotions go into overdrive, fear sets in and our nervous system triggers the fight, flight or freeze responds. You’re in pure survival mode. Our amygdala gets hijacked and our brains are up-regulating stress hormones which compromises our immune system, causing dis-ease.

As opposed to when we feel safe, there is a feeling of openness and trust. The energy is completely different. There is a coherence between the heart and the brain which allows for cooperation, sharing, compassion and growth. We are able to navigate the uncertainties of life with faith and courage. When we feel safe and connected, we are building, expanding, developing, celebrating and creating possibilities that we didn’t see before. We fall in love with life!  The hormone oxytocin, the love hormone is oozing from our hearts.  Trust is generated by our pre-frontal cortex or the executive brain. The ladder is generated by our primitive brain, or the limbic brain. This is the shift we need to make so we can evolve from the survival mind-set to the creative mind-set.

Our words and the energy behind them can make someone feel included or excluded.

So, the question now is how do we transform a conversation so we can communicate on a higher level to open up the connections with ourselves and others.

It’s by making the invisible, visible. We must become aware of the feelings that are being triggered inside of us and the chemical cocktails we are either up regulating or down regulating within our bodies through the language of conversations.

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You Are Enough

November 2, 2017

And my God shall supply every need of yours according to His riches in glory…

Phil.4:19

There were times in my life where I couldn’t believe in myself. I thought I was the one controlling my life. I would try and force things to happen in a certain way and when they didn’t go my way, I felt like a victim to the circumstance. It was only when I finally allowed myself to let go of controlling the outcome and trust in a higher power that everything I needed would be supplied.

Once you tap into this greater source of infinite supply and appreciate what you already have available to you now, will life’s gifts open and reveal themselves to you.

 

Releasing fear, negative thinking, limiting beliefs, and scarcity minded thoughts is the key to connecting with source energy. Have faith that your needs will be met and you are living in an abundant universe. Take responsibility for your self-care and show up to let the universe know you are trusting in the process. Things may appear like they’re not going as you would like them to, however with faith and hope as the muscle behind the scene, you release the greater good to collaborate with your strong intentions.

If these limiting beliefs, fear and negative thinking are still keeping you stuck, let’s talk. There are tools, techniques and strategies to shift that ity, bity, shity committee in your head!


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